What she does: Hope supersizes her own small business by featuring live and recorded classes through her popular portals by her clients who are located around the U.S. Not only do these professionals get a website with her sites, an interview posted on Inkandescent’s radio and TV channels, and they have access to incredibly affordable PR packages. Best of all, they become part of a national community of entrepreneurs who work together to build each other’s brands. With that mission in mind, Hope also launched an online store to showcase and sell the work of the truly amazing women in her network who create gorgeous handmade goods:InkandescentShop.com. Hope is launching Inkandescent Kids magazine and provide the opportunity for more women to publish their own books through InkandescentPublishing.com. Hope’s books includePR Rules: The Playbook— an entrepreneur’s guide to supersizing your small business using the 8 Steps to PR Success™, and her newest tome,Why Divorce: 5 Reasons to Leave.
Why she does it: “I can’t imagine a better way to spend my life than promoting women, standing up for human rights, and using the gifts I have been given to raise the voice of those who need to be heard.”
About the Empowered Together Project: It is understandable that many women are feeling deeply unsettled, anxious, or fearful following the results of America’s November 2024 political events, which carry significant implications. So we are launching a group to bring everyone together in a caring community — Empowered Together: Taking Back Our Power and Moving Forward. Our goal is to create a safe space to bring together Calm, Connected, Compassionate Changemakers. We believe these are the new 4Cs of millions of beautiful diamonds we will send out to sparkle, shine, and keep peace in the world.
Because we love to give gifts: In the coming weeks, the sidebar of this column (on the right), will feature information about some of our partners, including the team of 10 women around the world who wrote The Uprising of Women in Philanthropy. We will also share summaries and links to thoughtful articles by professional journalists, keep-calm ideas and suggestions from our pandemic-inspired What’s Next Journal — and later this month you’ll have access to weekly episodes of our Truly Amazing Women podcast interview series at TrulyAmazingWomen.com, also as a video show on TrulyAmazingWomen.tv. These conversations will shine a light on people and organizations who have insight into the world we will be living in come 2025 and beyond.
Until we connect: Here are some compassionate strategies, resources, and actions to help people find comfort, build resilience, and take meaningful steps for self-care and empowerment.
1. Acknowledge and Validate Emotions
- Accepting Feelings: It’s normal to feel a range of emotions, from anger and fear to sadness. Encouraging participants to acknowledge these emotions without judgment can provide relief.
- Group Sharing: Allow space for participants to voice their concerns. Sometimes just articulating fears can make them feel more manageable.
- Mindfulness Practice: Introduce grounding exercises, like mindful breathing or progressive muscle relaxation, to help manage anxiety in the moment.
2. Stay Informed (Without Becoming Overwhelmed)
- Curate News Sources: Encourage people to limit news intake to trusted sources to avoid misinformation and manage emotional overload.
- Set Boundaries: Limit time on social media or news apps to specific intervals. Continuous exposure can increase stress and negativity.
- Focus on Facts and Actions: Emphasize staying informed about tangible steps they can take within their communities to create positive change.
3. Connect with Community
- Join Local Groups: Encourage people to connect with like-minded individuals, either online or in-person, who share their values and concerns. Many find strength in numbers.
- Support Networks: Suggest joining advocacy groups or community organizations that focus on causes they care about, whether related to social justice, environmental issues, or human rights.
- Be Proactive Together: Organize a community event, such as a letter-writing campaign or a fundraiser for a cause they care about. Feeling active can reduce a sense of helplessness.
4. Prioritize Self-Care
- Routine and Health: Remind everyone to maintain basic self-care—healthy meals, exercise, sufficient sleep, and relaxation time.
- Creative Expression: Encourage journaling, art, music, or any creative outlet that allows people to express themselves constructively.
- Focus on Positives: Engage in gratitude journaling or daily affirmations to maintain balance and resilience.
5. Channel Fear into Constructive Action
- Political Engagement: Educate participants on how to become more involved in local politics, write letters to representatives, and participate in peaceful advocacy. They can also volunteer for causes they’re passionate about.
- Community Support: Emphasize the importance of building supportive networks, volunteering in their neighborhoods, or creating safe spaces for open discussions.
- Empowerment Through Education: Offer resources for understanding rights and effective civic engagement. Being educated about rights can help alleviate some fears and give people the confidence to act.
6. Seek Professional Help if Needed
- Therapy Resources: Suggest that those experiencing severe anxiety or distress consider professional counseling or therapy, especially if it begins to impact daily functioning.
- Helplines and Support Networks: Provide contact information for mental health resources, crisis hotlines, and support groups that can offer immediate help.
7. Look to Positive Change and Resilience
- Reframe the Narrative: Encourage viewing this period as an opportunity for growth, learning, and active civic engagement.
- Highlight Historical Resilience: Remind them that many social movements have faced setbacks but continued to make positive changes over time.
- Focus on Long-Term Vision: Shift focus from immediate concerns to the longer arc of justice, compassion, and progress.
8. Words of Comfort and Affirmation
- “Remember that you are not alone. There are millions of people who share your vision of compassion, respect, and inclusion.”
- “Resilience isn’t about not feeling fear or sadness; it’s about recognizing those feelings and continuing to live with hope and action.”
- “While change can be unsettling, it also brings people together in ways we could never predict. Together, we are strong.”
- “In times of difficulty, it’s okay to slow down, take a breath, and remember your own power, both as an individual and as part of a community.”
With love, Hope and Cynthia
Artwork by Cynthia de Lorenzi, www.Cynthia.art